Or, there’s sizes that only look good on girls with curves and vice versa. You won’t look good in EVERYTHING. You’ll never be light as a feather: that is IMPOSSIBLE. I hate the phrases ~I want to walk in the snow without leaving a footprint, i want to be light as a feather~. The only way you’d be light as a feather is if you died and you were cremated, a couple of your ashes would weight as much as a feather, ok? Size has nothing to do with your friends. If you feel uncomfortable with your friends because of your weight right now, I highly suggest you ditch them and find new ones. You know, there is more to a boy-girl relationship then the size of your waist, if a relationship is started solely based on that, than I don’t have much hope for it. Also: THERE ARE PLENTY OF CLOTHES YOU CAN FIT INTO, sure you may have to look, but so do the girls who are really skinny. Bones DO NOT EQUAL BEAUTY. I DON’T KNOW WHY EVERYONE THINKS THIS. Fuck, why do you need to be skinny to cuddle? I’m sure a lot of “”“”“FAT”“”“” girls cuddle with whoever the fuck they want all the time and whoever they are cuddling with are NOT sitting there obsessing over how much fat they have on their body.
Prove to yourself you are strong enough to do anything? I don’t exactly see how losing weight has anything to do with how strong of a person you are, honestly. I see someone who is COMFORTABLE with themselves no matter what SIZE they are a strong person because they have to put up with the bullshit like this telling them what they HAVE to be.
Just to note, there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to lose weight AT ALL. This shit just pisses me off because it has a “you can only do this and this and be happy if you’re skinny” tone to it. I’m so sick of shit like this.
“No bones to show off”
WHAT THE FUCK WHO WANTS BONES SHOWING?
what the fuck? who wrote this moronic bullshit?
I have taken care of patients that are severely anorexic. Skin so thinly draped around the bones, with muscles barely visible against the bone. They are too weak to walk unsupported, and can barely lift a cup up to their mouth. Yet they look at themselves, and say they are fat. This is a mental illness. The person that wrote this has a mental illness, to believe what they said is true. We have a problem as a society, we reinforce this mental illness. We tell people, even skinny people, that they are too fat all the time. We are given unreasonable expectations to live up to, and are made to feel unworthy if we can’t obtain them.
There is a growing movement for people to be comfortable as they are, but we have a long way to go. There is a lot of backlash against this change in attitude, and there is corresponding backlash against people that are skinny or under weight. We need to be careful not to be hateful towards people that are skinny, it just makes them dig their heels in deeper against self acceptance. We need to keep encouraging people to try to be comfortable in their bodies, however they are. There is nothing wrong with striving for a normal weight, to improve your health and how you feel in your body. We need to to stop telling skinny people to eat a sandwich and overweight people to eat a salad. It is none of our business, a person’s weight is their own business.
This person clearly want’s to lose too much weight, and feels that she does not deserve happiness until she loses weight. I really hope that this individual is eventually able to accept herself as she is.
